Tuesday, December 22, 2009

If only...

...she'd said "deception, denial and avoidance will not protect you" I'd have a very different relationship to feminism and feminists of all ethnicities right now.

Oh well. I guess I'll write it -

The manufacture of alternative hierarchies and the maintenance of deception, denial and avoidance in our lives, relationships, alliances and families will not protect us or further any of our causes.

Phew! That felt...necessary.

Oh and...If you celebrate any of them, please have a happy and consciousness filled set of state identified high holy days.





Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Try Jah love?

Nah. Dearest Jah, this anti-patriarchal feminist queer deviant daughta of the diaspora thinks it would be best to pass on that invitation. But hot damn! Do your believer/sons ever make some beauty music. Pretties. ;)


Monday, December 14, 2009

It would have been more powerful if she'd gotten messy and muddy...

But the song still works for me in certain ways...







Monday, November 30, 2009

New Relationship Energy...

New relationship energy (often abbreviated as NRE) is a neologism used within polyamorous communities referring to a state of mind experienced at the beginning of most significant sexual and romantic relationships, typically involving heightened emotional and sexual receptivity and excitement. It is described as beginning with the earliest attractions, growing into full force when mutuality is established, and slowly fading over months to years. It carries an explicit implication of contrast with the feelings involved with "old" or ongoing relationships.[1][unreliable source?]

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