I updated my okc profile description...

I think I am might actually okay dating wimmin. It's just that once they read what I've written, they might not be okay dating me. hee, hee! :)

in terms of connections to wimmin, i don't actually date wimmin right now. it doesn't make total sense for me in terms of how my identities are shifting... having said that, if you (a woman) come and read me here and suspect that you would be capable of engaging in ways that challenge not reify wimmin's patriarchally socialized and dominated ways of speaking, engaging, interacting indirectly, passive aggressively, competitively, fake smilingly, fearfully, hesitantly, self-doubtingly, ingratiatingly, accommodatingly, hierarchically, "nicely"...if what you just read doesn't piss you off and make you want to "teach me a lesson", doesn't make you want to show me, prove me wrong, doesn't make you want to let me know that you're not scared'a me, doesn't make you want to let me know that you're just as "angry" or "aggressive" or "mean" or "bitchy" or "diva" or "kewl" as i am...in short, if what you read doesn't confuse you, enrage you, threaten you, fill you with the need to collect, absorb, eliminate or compete with me...but instead...merely makes you nod with full understanding and with a sense of having encountered kindred then...*shrug* who knows? you could give me a try. we could hit it off. stranger things of happened.

That about does it.